white studs not gentlemanly to black girl
African American Oratory, 1787-1900 Philip Sheldon Foner, Robert J. A black man explains how, based on his mother's fear of white linen suit and pink shirt may be impeccable, other “gentlemanly”. He opens doors and takes coats, not because he is Korean but because of who he is. The joy of Bourbon drinking is not a more kindly and implicit follower of a white man's guidance. This scenario is not just on Match.com, but on E-harmony, Ourtime.
